1)DO WOMEN & YOUNG GIRLS VALUE THEMSELVES ANYMORE?
2)DO THEY RESPECT THEIR BODIES?
3)DO WOMEN & YOUNG GIRLS HAVE SEX WITH MEN BECAUSE THEY FEEL LIKE THAT'S THE WAY TO KEEP HIM, OR THAT'S THE WAY TO MAKE HIM HAPPY?
IN THIS AGE AND DAY, YOUNG GIRLS ARE GROWING UP FAST. & SEX SEEMS LIKE A MUST. EVERYTHING AROUND US IS ADVERTISING SEX, BUT EVEN AFTER THAT IT'S YOUR DECISION TO SAY YES OR NO.
I FEEL LIKE GIRLS ARE GIVING IT UP TO EASY NOWADAYS. I WONDER DO THEY EVER STOP TO THINK OR ASK THEMSELVES:
1. IF THIS DUDE REALLY THINKS OF YOU AS A SWEET, BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. OR DOES HE THINKS YOU'RE A WHORE FOR GIVING IT UP SO EASY.
2. I'M NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM "WHY AM I DOING THIS".
3. DOES HE REALLY CARE ABOUT ME?
4. WILL HE STILL TREAT ME THE SAME WAY, WITH RESPECT. WILL HE STILL CALL ME?
I WISH THAT FEMALES WOULD ASK THEMSELVES THESE QUESTIONS BEFORE PERSUING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WITH THESE YOUNG MEN. WHEN ITS ALL SAID AND DONE YOU THE FEMALE WILL BE LEFT HURT SITTING SOMEWHERE CRYING & QUESTIONING YOURSELF.
IT'S NORMAL TO HAVE SEX WITH SOMEBODY YOU'RE MARRIED TO, OR THAT YOU'VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH FOR AN ACCEPTABLE AMOUNT OF TIME, BUT WHEN YOU GIVE UP THE GOODIES TO JUST ANYBODY (SOMEBODY YOU SOMETIMES CALL OR TEXT OR SEE) YOU SHOULD REALLY RETHINK YOUR MORALS. NOWADAYS IT'S LIKE YOU WANT ME I WANT YOU LET'S GET IT TYPE OF SITUATION.
LADIES AT THE END OF THE DAY, HE DOESN'T WANT TO PUT A RING ON IT. THIS IS HOW HE THINKS: IF I HIT IT THE FIRST NIGHT, OR THAT EASY I KNOW PLENTY NIGGAS BEFORE ME DID!
I VALUE MYSELF ALOT & I FEEL LIKE IF ANY DUDE IS WORTY OF HAVING SEX WITH ME, WE MUST BE IN A COMMITED RELATIONSHIP WHETHER IT'S MARRIAGE OR JUST A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.
HE HAS TO LOVE ME & ACCEPT MY WISHES AS WELL AS RESPECT THEM
HE HAS TO RESPECT ME AS A PERSON.
MOST OF ALL
CONNECT WITH ME
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I agree with you, and yes I feel the same way. Alot of girls think sex will keep a man or make them happy but its not long lasting and soes not guraentee a commitment. Good post
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Thanks Ms. T
Yea Sex is definently a trend these days...
ReplyDeleteI look at these girls and how they not only giving it up to the dude but they letting the dead beats knock them up!! I have the biggest dreams in the world and I refused to be played like a hoe.....too bad not enough girls think like me.....they wanna follow the sex with everyone knocked up trend!!